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I Lost My Coffee

A mug of coffee next to a keyboard.
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Yesterday, I ran into a problem. At around 4:00 p.m. ET, I poured myself a fresh cup of coffee. Then I had a brief video call with a colleague, for 15 or 20 minutes. Once the call was over, I went to take a sip of my coffee. It wasn't there. It wasn't anywhere. I couldn't find my coffee.

To get some other minds on the case, I told the Defector staff I had lost my coffee. They were very invested in finding it. Here is the story of the lost coffee, as told through an edited Slack transcript.


Tom Ley
ive gotten myself into a bit of a barry-style jam
i filled up a nice hot cup of java, put it down somewhere and had a zoom call for like 20 min, and now i cannot find my nice hot cup of java

Samer Kalaf
is wesley home

[Ed. note: Wesley is Tom's wife.]

Tom Ley
im all alone
being driven mad by my missing java

Samer Kalaf
next question is: did you go outside at all between java and now

Tom Ley
no

Samer Kalaf
hmm

Dave McKenna
dang. this is my life
look in the sink or on the stove

David Roth
Simply go around your house sniffing vigorously

Dave McKenna
best value longshot i've found is on the banister or some place a bit elevated cuz you're looking lower for a cup

Tom Ley
i think the only potential answer here is that i placed it on the counter and walked away and came back and forgot that was new java and poured it out and put it in the dish washer
tho i have no memory of doing that

Samer Kalaf
is the mug in the dishwasher?

Tom Ley
another complicating factor is that i am making red sauce so i cannot smell java over sauce smell
there a few mugs in the dishwasher but i cant remember which one i was using
none of em are wet
i guess i need to call off the search
ive checked every surface

Maitreyi
it'll turn up when it turns up

dave mckenna
think of others
we gotta see the end of this movie

Maitreyi
but check the garbage

Samer
is it in the fridge? on top of the fridge? in the microwave?

Maitreyi
oh in microwave is a good guess
ive left coffee in there before

Samer
or like think of places where you might need to set it down to pick something up with two hands

billy
sometimes i'll be looking for my phone and not realize that it's actually already in my hand, have you checked there yet tom?

[20 minutes pass]

Albert Burneko
tom did the coffee show up yet or do i have to go insane

Tom Ley
ive settled on the "i poured it out" theory

Albert Burneko
i’m sorry i cannot accept this until the memory has been recovered

Diana
Oh I do this once a day
At least

Tom Ley
yeah that's the issue that remains bert
i need to undergo hypnosis now

Drew Magary
Just make another pot
Actually you probably already have

Albert Burneko
that doesn’t solve the problem of the missing coffee!

Drew Magary
Yes but he gets coffee
Eases the sting

Albert Burneko
that’s like telling Charles Lindbergh to just have another baby!!!!
i’m gonna be, like, trying to distract myself from this literally when i go to bed tonight

[It is now 10 a.m., the following morning]

Tom Ley
wesley found the cup of java

Maitreyi Anantharaman
!!!

Luis Paez-Pumar
!

Albert Burneko
!!!!!!

Kathryn Xu
omg

Lauren Theisen
wait WHAT

Sabrina Imbler
holy shit

Maitreyi Anantharaman
i gasped out loud

Albert Burneko
hwhwhwhwhwhere was it????

David Roth
What was the location

Maitreyi Anantharaman
i bet it was somewhere high

Barry Petchesky
i bet it was somewhere low

Albert Burneko
i bet it was somewhere medium

Kathryn Xu
floor

Tom Ley
it was in the office, on a skinny dresser in the corner by where the wifi router is. the reason it was there is that i was walking around with it and realized that sancho had fucked with the router and knocked it over so i must have put it down to fix the router and then forgot about it

[Ed. note: Sancho is a dog.]

Maitreyi Anantharaman
it was low??? 

Albert Burneko
“every surface,” huh??????

Barry Petchesky
what was the height of the coffee

Tom Ley
like hip level

Sabrina Imbler
in my mind I was thinking it would be on the skinny dresser.........

Samer Kalaf
Good mystery, good resolution

Tom Ley
i guess my eyes just never go to that corner of the office
i never think about it
because i def came in here yesterday several times and turned on the lights and looked around

Albert Burneko
what did the mug look like
was it camouflaged

Barry Petchesky
yeah what color is mug

Tom Ley
white mug
against white walls

Maitreyi Anantharaman
sounds like you need to paint your walls a dark color

Tom Ley
yeah i cant let this happen again

Albert Burneko
yeah or like, weird zebra stripes of color
no mug will hide against them

Tom Ley
im really glad i didn't pour it out and put it in the dishwasher because i was kinda spooked about that being the answer and not having even a sliver of a memory

Ray Ratto
We're all missing the plot here. How did it taste a day later, and don't say you didn't try it. 

Tom Ley
ok yeah i did take a little sip just to see
it was fine

Ray Ratto
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